Friday, May 20, 2011

How To Address People?

I was surprised by some students who would address their teachers by their profession or job title: "Good morning, teacher", or "Good afternoon, sport/discipline teacher." These sound strange for me and I wonder if it is a new trend or it has been there for some time.

Then there are some young people who would address their family members or elders as "Hi", "Dude", "Hey", or "Buddy", just as they would call their friends. I have bad feelings about these; I don't think these are appropriate ways of greeting.

I would prefer people to address us by our name, our title or both. It would be nice if people can call us "Mr John" when our name is John, or "Madam Lucy" if we are older and our name is Lucy.

I am not trying to be fussy. But I believe there must be proper respect and honor among civilized people. And I think good attitudes and behaviors need to be inculcated in our young people.

Some of us just can't care less how people address them. They are happy if there are some who would just raise their hands or nod their heads or say "Hi".

Of course I am not in favor of creating human barriers among people by advocating strict rules. But I believe we should learn to submit to one another in our relationship. After all, we are told to love our neighbors as ourselves.

Courtesy and good mannerisms are important qualities in our lives. We must learn to use the right words such as "Thank you" or "I am sorry", and to greet people appropriately.

Good attitudes and behaviors are keys to good relationship, and need to be cultivated early in our lives.

How I wish our younger generations can be more careful in their speech, action and behavior.

What do you think about these?


Friday, May 13, 2011

Online Full-Time Earning

My friends are talking about earning full-time online. I love the idea; I am for it, though I only earn part time online at the present moment. I thought through, whenever it was mentioned, carefully weighing the pros and cons, and decided that it wouldn't work for me at least for the present moment.

I am a full-time high school teacher, and I love teaching teenage boys and girls in school. I love to see them chasing after knowledge and wisdom; asking questions and looking for answers every now and then. I love to hear them chasing after their goals, always talking and dreaming about entering an established university or college.

But sometimes, after doing the same things over and over again, I do get bored of what I am doing everyday. Maybe we all need a change sometimes, even for a short moment, doing something different and truly unique, or something we really want to do everyday.

A freelance work would be nice; maybe that's why some people prefer to work alone online and offline. I admire book writers, photographers, artists, musicians, etc., who enjoy working on their own and making big time money. Can earning online be one of them too?

Many young unemployed graduates are trying their luck on earning online too. But after many trying and failing, some of them finally give up and prefer to work with people for a rather low pay. Maybe earning full-time online is still a big dream for many of us.

It takes time and effort to know and deal with the trade if we are to make it. Success doesn't come easy. But I strongly believed if we are for it, we will be able to make it.

Online full-time earning is not a dream; some have made it and are now enjoying the fruit of their labor. But we must also humbly admit that not everyone is suitable for every job. Some of us need to seek greener pastures elsewhere.

Online full-time earning...

Will it be a reality in the near future for me?

Or will it remain to me a wild dream?

I smiled, shaking my head... and sighed.