I was musing today on what happens when you don't feel loved, when I remembered a conversation I had with Dad when he was teaching me to drive....
I was asking him about what gave some people that 'likeability' factor....
He thought for a moment and said
"Human beings have to be at the center of their own world - either subconsciously or not - to survive in the jungle we call life.
However, those who learn to create the feeling that whoever they are
- talking to
- interacting with
- or listening to
are for that time at the center of their world or the center of their attention....they are delivering that ultimate human need which people crave for....or as you would say, the likability factor"
Who is at the center of your world today?
And to those people who you have emotionally 'touched' today - did they feel they were at the center of your attention for that time?
I was musing today on what happens when you don't feel loved, when I remembered a conversation I had with Dad when he was teaching me to drive....
I was asking him about what gave some people that 'likeability' factor....
He thought for a moment and said
"Human beings have to be at the center of their own world - either subconsciously or not - to survive in the jungle we call life.
However, those who learn to create the feeling that whoever they are
are for that time at the center of their world or the center of their attention....they are delivering that ultimate human need which people crave for....or as you would say, the likability factor"
Who is at the center of your world today?
And to those people who you have emotionally 'touched' today - did they feel they were at the center of your attention for that time?